To love someone, there are times that we have to learn to let go. Even though how much we want them to be by our side, they will eventually have to go too. Nothing last forever, eventually, the people around you will soon be gone one day.
We have to learn how to accept the things the way they are. Even if it hurt us so much, we will have to learn how to endure the pain and move on.We have to be willing to let things go, if you don't, it will only hurt you more.When you are not willing to let go of your attachments, there will be suffering. Some experience comes from pain. When we know if it's painful, we will learn and try not to let it happen again. Without the pain, we wouldn't be a better person.
Everyone wants happiness, nobody wants pain. But you can't have a rainbow, without a little rain.
So, it's okay if it hurts, because there's always someone who is in the same boat as you. It's okay to let go. Don't make yourself suffer because of an attachment.
Just let it go.
And you will find happiness.